You are in a classical situation where people who have lived in two countries for a long time find themselves. There are plus & minuses in both countries. If you have found the Utopia share it with us.
Forums will allways have a hot subject and I am afraid this hot topic is all over Spain i.e. Illegal builds, corrupt Mayors/lawyers, ineffective supervision. The Spaniards are also caught in it, as they know the system/language/enchufes, they are least affected by it.
If you want a globel information, you just need to keep on reading and keep on shifting the goal post.